8 relationship tips for the first date with a girl
To the boys prepared some first date with a girl’s love tips, hurry up and collect them!
- understand each other’s preferences. Before pursuing each other, you must do your homework and be clear about her preferences and habits, so that dating can arrange everything and make each other feel comfortable.
- pay attention to their dress.First date dress up is very important, dress taste is the main, don’t just wear a hundred and one models, popular is not necessarily suitable for their own, wear clothes must be selected for their own, highlight their advantages, rather than the latest listing. In addition, the dress code should be neat, simple, and generous, not sloppy and casual, and not too formal and dull.
- dating location.Before the date to locate the other party’s type, if it is a lady literary model or business type of girl, you can meet for afternoon tea (remember to arrive 15 minutes early and send a message to the other party to say “I’m here”). If it is lively and active, sports type of girls can be about to go together to play ball. For the date, location is best to choose a more busy location, as close as possible to the girl’s residence, to dispel each other’s doubts. Places like zoos, botanical gardens, and parks are not suitable for first dates.
- talk to be funny and cultivated.Although most girls say they are looking for an honest guy, they like guys who are articulate and funny. The first date atmosphere is very important, as a man, to have enough self-confidence, take the initiative to throw out the topic, and the other natural conversation, as if she were your friend to chat, as far as possible to find each other interested in the topic, to guide her more open. You can also talk about some interesting topics, such as gossip fun, horoscope, travel or dark humor, etc.
- Compliment the girl.Remember to praise each other when you meet, you can say: “You are so beautiful today, almost did not recognize” and so on, or you can also praise each other’s hair, dress, temperament, etc., but do not mention the looks and body.
- to romance.In the premise of the conditions, appropriate to create some romance and surprise that will be more likely to impress the girl’s heart. But remember: romance is not the same as high spending! Many guys think that the first date is to spend a lot of money, to create a lot of money to spend on romance, in fact, the first time it is not necessary to be so exaggerated. There is a saying “Details determine success or failure”, for girls, on the first date, she is more interested in the details, a warm look, a word of concern, walking intentionally let her walk on the inside, and so on, these can make them feel cared for, being taken care of.
- The desire to capture is a sure-fire emotional technique, and the desire to finish is the highest level.Give yourself hints and subconscious: dating is only for
Test her to see if she is worthy of your continued deep friendship, not chase her! Keeping your distance appropriately may have an unexpected effect. At the same time, do not have too much contact on the night of the first date, point to point (do not chase the girl that night or the next day to ask how the date feels, happy or not, and other silly questions).
8, do not send gifts. Do not rush to send gifts on the first date (except for birthdays, Valentine’s Day, and Tanabata), too much to buy dinner and send gifts will only let you enter the friendship zone. You should use their humor to attract her, not with gifts.